Although nothing beats a visit for those that are bedridden either
in a hospital or at home one of the greatest pleasures would be receiving
a letter from a friend. A letter or greeting card in between visits will
always be appreciated.
The following are four tips that can be followed when writing:
Don't be brief
We are usually advised to keep letters brief and to the point
but in this instance, the longer the letter, the better. The invalid or
convalescent has a great deal of time on their hands and will enjoy having
this contact with someone. Even if they only feel up to reading only part
of the letter at a time, they will have something to look forward to and
finish reading.
Easy to read
Because the energy level of an invalid or convalescent is likely
to be low make sure you letter is easy to read - don't make them work
any harder than necessary. If your handwriting isn't easily legible, print
the letter in large, easy-to-read characters. If you type your letter
be sure to double-space your lines but always sign it off with a personalised
signature.
Cheerful
Keep your letter cheerful but don't run into the trivial. Make
comments on the person's own situations and ask questions as you would
in a conversation even if the invalid is not able to write a reply.
Clippings
If the invalid is going to be confined for some time and you're
worried that your life routines make for poor material for an interesting
series of letters, consider sending clippings from newspapers and magazines
that you think will be of interest. Jokes, humorous columns and even serious
articles will help make them feel a part of the world and is a good morale
builder.