Message #63698

[JessW]

I find the use of "Can I" and "May I" very useful when dealing the step-children.  

"Can I have a drink/yoghurt/etc?" - yes you can but it does not necessarily mean that you will"

"May I etc?" - yes or no depending upon if it is asked just before a meal!

That way I do try to teach them correct grammar.

Mind you, I do tend to typo the occasional "tot he" instead of to the, which always makes me laugh as I go back on myself and correct it.