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Dear DeskDiva,

I am very unhappy in my current position, but the job market, as you know, is very difficult right now. I want to begin quietly looking for a new position, but am not independently wealthy, and can't afford to give up my current job until I've found a replacement. I feel guilty about job-hunting without informing my current employer, and yet also know that I will most likely be shown the door as soon as he finds out.

Why does it feel so wrong to want to do something better ?

Signed,
G. R.
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Dear G.R.

Job-hunting, next to public speaking is considered to be one of the most nerve wracking tasks we undertake as professional beings. Add to the already high stress of job-hunting; the need to undertake James Bond like subterfuge when scheduling job interviews and you understand why some people spend years in positions they hate. It's simply too difficult to find another position.

So here's my short course on :

The Covert Career Hunt

Once you've made the decision, however painful, to look for a new job, it's often the case that you don't want the existing employer to know it. That's an acceptable stance to take when you're dealing with your career. You have as much right to protect and progress your own career as anyone else does and making the decision to do so does not mean you're disloyal as long as you meet certain guidelines when embarking on your career path change.

Work time is still work time

Never abuse your existing position to garner a new one. Extend your concepts of abuse to your current employer's time, supplies, equipment and contacts.

If job search calls must be made during business hours, (and let's face it, they do) then make them during lunch breaks, coffee breaks and from a phone that doesn't belong to your employer.

Further, don't use company time to write your resume, compile your references, or use online job search tools. Not even a paper clip from your existing employer should be used in your job search.

Networking Versus Poaching

Never ever use existing clients as potential job contacts from within your current position.

If it's a current client you're dying to go to work for your first contact can and should be the HR department of your chosen company. Later on, you can mention that you've had interaction with Mr. Smith from marketing to help them get some idea of your skills, but don't use Mr. Smith as the way in if the way you have come to know him is due to the fact that you do business with him in your current role.

It's networking if you mention Mr. Smith as someone whom you've had contact with during the course of your interview with the other company.

It's poaching if you ask Mr. Smith directly to help you find a position with his company during working hours, while you work for another company.

Really good net workers write books and find terrific jobs; poachers, in most companies are viewed one rung below dumping toxic waste. Poaching will have a similar impact on your career eventually.

In short, make sure you're working during work. It helps with the guilt too, to know that you're only doing job search related tasks on your own time and with your own resources.

Creative Interviews

Schedule interviews creatively. Many employers are receptive to either early morning interviews, slightly after hour interviews and in some cases the initial interview can be a phone interview.

You won't know if you don't ask, and making the statement that you don't want to see your current employer suffer from a lack of your attention implies that you are both ethical and conscientious. If the prospective employer can't schedule an early or late interview, then try to arrange one during a time when your absence will have the least possible impact on your current employer. If, arriving late to work one morning, will have little impact on your company, arrange the interview then.

Better still if you have vacation or holiday time available, schedule your interviews then and do a group of them.

What reasons do you give?

In any job search there will doubtless come a time when you have to be out of the office during working times to pursue a good possible new position. When that happens, make sure you've given as much notice to your employer of your absence as possible.

Calling in sick because it's the easiest way out, is not good either for your sense of what is ethical, or for your employer, since if you do land a new position it's going to become glaringly apparent that your frequent bouts with that pesky head cold were really about your needing to be downtown for an interview. This has the potential to leave both sides embarrassed and carries the potential of having a negative impact on your references from the company you've lied to.

When you must schedule an interview during work time, then take a personal day. Explaining that you have some personal errands to run, is ethically far more palatable than a blatant lie. If you're pushed for more description about why you'll be out a simple statement such as "It's really a personal errand, thanks for understanding" will circumvent any too close questioning.

When the time comes to leave.

Give as much notice as possible. If you have an employment contract review it for your termination notice period. If you don't have a contract find out what company policy is and adhere to it. If there is no policy, it's a safe rule of thumb to allow two weeks to one month.

If your new employer doesn't understand that you have obligations and can't work with you to make sure that you can avoid leaving your original employer stuck, then pass on the job, unless you really think burning the bridge with your current employer is in order.

It's not just about how this employer views your departure, remember he's potentially going to be giving you a reference for several years to come. Do you really want to be the person he refers to as "that person who only gave three days notice?"

The Exit Interview

If you work for a larger company, you'll most often be asked to participate in an "Exit Interview". The original purpose of the Exit Interview was to make sure that you had turned in all your keys, that you were aware what insurance and company share option programs needed action by you and to determine what might happen with profit sharing, unused holiday allocations, etc.

No where was the exit interview ever meant to be your time to unload about Mr. Thompson's lack of management skills. Or Mrs. Jamison getting promoted before you did, even though you're smarter and work harder. Keep your exit interview professional. If you're asked, and only if you're asked, give a clear professionally based reason for wanting to move to your new job. "Explore new challenges", "create a different set of priorities" "gain new skills" and even " increased financial incentives" may sound trite, but they're exactly the right reasons to leave a job that's going to give you a good reference and think kindly about your soon to be empty cubicle.

No matter your reason for leaving, remember the reference lives on long after you depart. Professional decorum on job exit will ensure professional references based on your skills and how you did your job, not the bad taste you left in your wake.

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