Message #59566

[raindance]

I think you will just have to meet this person where he's at, so to speak and continue to be your usual charming self.  

It may well be that this colleague is either very shy or a recluse, or just socially inept.  If it really bothers you, you might wish to consider just mentioning to him in as tactful and humourous way as possible.

Best wishes,

Raindance