Message #4231

[goldenearring]

I am sorry I can't offer anymore advice than what Andrea had to offer above.  You need to get your documentation in order, I agree.  I think I would go straight to HR, myself, but I'm not in your situation.  If you feel you are in any sort of danger, I would recommend seeking out someone in authority in the company who has a good reputation for helping others.  I hope you know who that is.  You have been loyal long enough; it is time to save your own ship.  You appear to recognize this.  If your boss truly has the problems it appears he does, there is really nothing anybody can do for him at this point.  It is a sad situation, but you need to pull away.  He will either totally self-destruct, or he will have a life-altering moment and pull himself back.  Either way, at this point, it is going to be a long process, and there isn't anything you can do because he has started weaving you into his madness.  Fortunately, you woke up before the spider completely enclosed you in the web.  Fight to get out, in tact.  If it is possible for you to get transferred or not to work for awhile while you find a new job, I think I might consider that.  I don't know how much support you have, though.  I also don't even know how one would interview after going through something like this, so I'm bowing out right now.  Monday a.m. will find the troops rushing to your aid here.  Hang in there.