A Post from Winkiebear as follows:
"Bridget, I just wanted to say it WILL get better. As the baby gets older, you'll be a bit more comfy with being away... it'll never be "normal", but you will make it a routine.
As for lack of focus, I find myself with that problem a lot... I have to consistently tell myself to focus on what I'm doing. When there are a lot of distractions, such as the phone, or email, I have to forward my phone to voicemail (which doesn't sound like an option for you) and turn off my email application. It's the only way to save my sanity sometimes.
((hugs))
Good luck, m'dear... hang in there, it'll get better. "
Chris68
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