Message #18931

[laundryhater]

My post was not meant to be hurtful at all and I'm sorry if you thought it was.

I was just throwing out an idea and another option.

I know two families who had tried for years to have children naturally. They endured years of heartaching miscarriages. Finally they tried the medical treatments. Now they have more children than they can afford (multiple births are often side effects of these treatments) and have to depend on government assistance just to make ends meet. It's sad really.

I just thought you might consider being an abandoned child's "angel" if you cannot conceive naturally. I know we all would love to have a child of our own but sometimes that is not always in the cards for us. There are thousands of children waiting to be adopted into a safe, loving home.