nextira
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« on: January 23, 2003, 07:03:49 pm » |
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Hi there,
I have been working as an Executive Assistant for the past couple of years. Recently I was approached by another company who asked for my resume and an interview. I'm happy in my current position; however, I wanted to see what they had to offer. I ended up interviewing with the President of the company who asked me to consider a position. I have decided not to take the job, but I haven't responded to his offer yet because I don't want to burn any bridges. Is it possible to turn him down and keep the door open? How should I approach this? Also, should I tell my current employer about this recruitment effort?
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jadegrniiz
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« Reply #1 on: January 23, 2003, 08:08:28 pm » |
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I certainly wouldn't tell your current boss about the offer, especially since you aren't taking it. While I think everyone is entitled to keep an open eye to something better, you don't have to promote the fact, either.
I would just be frank with the company - tell them why their offer wasn't worth leaving your current job. If it's salary, I'd say, "Well, Mr. HR person, I've thought very carefully about the job offer, but unfortunately I'm unable to accept the position at this time. My salary is currently much higher, and it'd be fruitless to move. But I appreciate everyone's time, and perhaps you will keep me in your files, and contact me should another opportunity arise." You never know... they might counter offer, and make it worth your while.
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chevygirl55
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« Reply #2 on: January 23, 2003, 08:15:01 pm » |
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The offer in and of itself shows that you have developed a great reputation and that there are others outside your company taking notice of what you do. Congratulations!
I believe that you can turn down this offer without burning bridges. A letter of decline stating that you are pleased to have been considered but after much thought you have decided to stay at your current position for the present. This leaves the door open for "sometime down the road". You need to come off as a true professional in your refusal of the position. (You must already be a true professional, or you wouldn't have been approached in the first place).
As for telling your current employer, my personal opinion is that only you know what your relationship is. I have had bosses where I would have had no problem and those it would have caused a boatload of misery.
Again, congratulations!
chevygirl55
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countrigal
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« Reply #3 on: January 23, 2003, 08:45:50 pm » |
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Like the others said, don't tell Bossie unless your relationship is such that he/she will take it as a compliment that their PA is being asked for by others. That's how mine took it when I told him, but I knew he would take it that way before hand.
As for the declination, again the others have the perfect response. So I have nothing to add but my Congratulations of being seen and appreciated like that. What a boon!
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nextira
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« Reply #4 on: January 23, 2003, 10:38:11 pm » |
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Thanks for everyone's advice/opinion. I responded to the offer accordingly and I've decided not to tell my current employer about the offer.
It was nice to post my question and get a response(s) right away. I really appreciate the feedback and the kudos.
Thank you,
Lisa
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